Sunday, January 16, 2011

The real me.

I still don't understand why is it so hard for others to understand me?


I'm a person who lives in the present (mostly), I do not hold grudges, I do not revenge. I may think that you are doing the wrong thing, but I would never despise you for it, no one is perfect. 


I may not be an expert on sweet-talks or wonderful comforting words, but if you need help you will see it in my actions. It is just my way of expressing myself and I would like you to know that I am what I am- I believe in solving the problem instead of ruminating on it.  


In times, I may seem judgemental, criticising or intimidating in our conversations but really, all I want is to understand you ( it is really difficult in the Asian culture tho). I want to give others the chance to prove themselves. Hence, the many detailed questions and what seem like I'm not letting it go. 


I'm not saying that I don't have weaknesses, I do have and I would love to get rid of them. It's just that these are the ways of me showing that I care about you and I appreciate others treating me honestly too. 

5 comments:

Jassy said...

what happened Evie???
u ok?

Evie said...

yeah, i'm ok.. just one of those moments of deep-thoughts..hehe =)

Valerie Chua said...

Evie!!!!!!! *hugs* *kiss all over your face with my saliva*

Evie said...

haha... this is not an emo post la wei, u ppl.. just wanna clarify myself.. hehe =P
but I appreciate the concern, girls.. =)

Val: u're like my golden retriever..=P

Valerie Chua said...

EXCUSE ME? I am showing you my love there, and you said i look like a DOG??? :'(